联立 $\left\{\begin{array}{l}x_{0} x+2 y_{0} y-4=0 \\ y=-2\end{array}\right.$ ,解得 $x_{2}=\frac{4+4 y_{0}}{x_{0}}, y_{2}=-2$ ,
所以 $\frac{S_{1}}{S_{2}}=\frac{x_{1}-x_{0}}{x_{0}-x_{2}}=\frac{\frac{4-4 y_{0}}{x_{0}}-x_{0}}{x_{0}-\frac{4+4 y_{0}}{x_{0}}}=\frac{4-4 y_{0}-x_{0}^{2}}{x_{0}^{2}-4 y_{0}-4}$
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=\frac{2 y_{0}^{2}-4 y_{0}}{-2 y_{0}^{2}-4 y_{0}}=\frac{2-y_{0}}{2+y_{0}},
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$\frac{|O A|}{|O B|}=\frac{\sqrt{\left(\frac{4-4 y_{0}}{x_{0}}\right)^{2}+4}}{\sqrt{\left(\frac{4+4 y_{0}}{x_{0}}\right)^{2}+4}}=\frac{\sqrt{4\left(1-y_{0}\right)^{2}+x_{0}^{2}}}{\sqrt{4\left(1+y_{0}\right)^{2}+x_{0}^{2}}}=\frac{\sqrt{4\left(1-y_{0}\right)^{2}+4-2 y_{0}^{2}}}{\sqrt{4\left(1+y_{0}\right)^{2}+4-2 y_{0}^{2}}}=\frac{\sqrt{y_{0}^{2}-4 y_{0}+4}}{\sqrt{y_{0}^{2}+4 y_{0}+4}}=\frac{2-y_{0}}{2+y_{0}}$,
故 $\frac{S_{1}}{S_{2}}=\frac{|O A|}{|O B|}$ 。
法二:不妨设 $A\left(x_{1}, y_{1}\right), B\left(x_{2}, y_{2}\right)$ ,易知,当 $x_{1}=x_{2}$ 时,由对称性可知,$\frac{S_{1}}{S_{2}}=\frac{|O A|}{|O B|}$ 。
故设 $X_{2}联立 $\left\{\begin{array}{l}x_{0} x+2 y_{0} y-4=0 \\ y=2\end{array}\right.$ ,解得 $x_{1}=\frac{4-4 y_{0}}{x_{0}}, y_{1}=2$ ,
联立 $\left\{\begin{array}{l}x_{0} x+2 y_{0} y-4=0 \\ y=-2\end{array}\right.$ ,解得 $x_{2}=\frac{4+4 y_{0}}{x_{0}}, y_{2}=-2$ ,
则 $k_{O A}=\frac{y_{1}}{x_{1}}=\frac{2 x_{0}}{4-4 y_{0}}=\frac{x_{0}}{2-2 y_{0}}, k_{O B}=\frac{y_{2}}{x_{2}}=\frac{-2 x_{0}}{4+4 y_{0}}=-\frac{x_{0}}{2+2 y_{0}}, k_{O M}=\frac{y_{0}}{x_{0}}$ ,
又 $\frac{x_{0}^{2}}{4}+\frac{y_{0}^{2}}{2}=1$ ,所以 $x_{0}^{2}+2 y_{0}^{2}=4$ ,
所以 $\tan \angle A O M=\frac{k_{O A}-k_{O M}}{1+k_{O A} \cdot k_{O M}}=\frac{\frac{x_{0}}{2-2 y_{0}}-\frac{y_{0}}{x_{0}}}{1+\frac{x_{0}}{2-2 y_{0}} \times \frac{y_{0}}{x_{0}}}$
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=-\frac{x_{0}^{2}+2 y_{0}^{2}-2 y_{0}}{x_{0}\left(y_{0}-2\right)}=-\frac{4-2 y_{0}}{x_{0}\left(y_{0}-2\right)}=\frac{2}{x_{0}},
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$\tan \angle B O M=\frac{k_{O M}-k_{O B}}{1+k_{O M} \cdot k_{O B}}=\frac{\frac{y_{0}}{x_{0}}+\frac{x_{0}}{2+2 y_{0}}}{1+\frac{y_{0}}{x_{0}} \times\left(-\frac{x_{0}}{2+2 y_{0}}\right)}=\frac{x_{0}^{2}+2 y_{0}^{2}+2 y_{0}}{x_{0}\left(y_{0}+2\right)}=\frac{4+2 y_{0}}{x_{0}\left(y_{0}+2\right)}=\frac{2}{x_{0}}$ ,
则 $\tan \angle A O M=\tan \angle B O M$ ,即 $\angle A O M=\angle B O M$ ,
所以 $\frac{S_{1}}{S_{2}}=\frac{|O A||O M| \sin \angle A O M}{|O B||O M| \sin \angle B O M}=\frac{|O A|}{|O B|}$ .
