【答案】① $a_{n}=2n+3$ ;
(2) 证明见解析.
【解析】
【分析】①设等差数列 $\left\{a_{n}\right\}$ 的公差为d,用 $a_{1},d$ 表示 $S_{n}$ 及 $T_{n}$ ,即可求解作答.
(2)方法1,利用①的结论求出 $S_{n}$ , $b_{n}$ ,再分奇偶结合分组求和法求出 $T_{n}$ ,并与 $S_{n}$ 作差比较作答;方法2,利用①的结论求出 $S_{n}$ , $b_{n}$ ,再分奇偶借助等差数列前 $n$ 项和公式求出 $T_{n}$ ,并与 $S_{n}$ 作差比较作答。【小问1详解】
设等差数列 $\{a_{n}\}$ 的公差为 $\pmb{d}$ ,而 $b_{n} = \begin{cases} a_{n} - 6, & n = 2k - 1 \\ 2a_{n}, & n = 2k \end{cases}, k \in \mathbf{N}^{*}$ ,
则 $b_{1} = a_{1} - 6, b_{2} = 2a_{2} = 2a_{1} + 2d, b_{3} = a_{3} - 6 = a_{1} + 2d - 6,$
于是 $\left\{ \begin{array}{l} S_{4} = 4a_{1} + 6d = 32 \\ T_{3} = 4a_{1} + 4d - 12 = 16 \end{array} \right.$ ,解得 $a_{1} = 5, d = 2$ , $a_{n} = a_{1} + (n - 1)d = 2n + 3$ ,
所以数列 $\{a_{n}\}$ 的通项公式是 $a_{n} = 2n + 3$
【小问 2 详解】
方法 1:由①知, $S_{n}=\frac{n(5+2n+3)}{2}=n^{2}+4n$ , $b_{n}=\begin{cases}2n-3,n=2k-1\\4n+6,n=2k\end{cases},k\in\mathrm{N}^{*}$
当 $n$ 为偶数时, $b_{n-1} + b_n = 2(n-1) - 3 + 4n + 6 = 6n + 1$
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T _ {n} = \frac {1 3 + (6 n + 1)}{2} \cdot \frac {n}{2} = \frac {3}{2} n ^ {2} + \frac {7}{2} n,
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当 $n > 5$ 时, $T_{n} - S_{n} = \left(\frac{3}{2} n^{2} + \frac{7}{2} n\right) - (n^{2} + 4n) = \frac{1}{2} n(n - 1) > 0$ ,因此 $T_{n} > S_{n}$ ,
当 $n$ 为奇数时, $T_{n} = T_{n+1} - b_{n+1} = \frac{3}{2}(n+1)^{2} + \frac{7}{2}(n+1) - [4(n+1) + 6] = \frac{3}{2}n^{2} + \frac{5}{2}n - 5,$
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n > 5
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T _ {n} - S _ {n} = (\frac {3}{2} n ^ {2} + \frac {5}{2} n - 5) - (n ^ {2} + 4 n) = \frac {1}{2} (n + 2) (n - 5) > 0
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T _ {n} > S _ {n}
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所以当n>5时, $T_{n}>S_{n}$ .
**方法二**:由①知, $S_{n} = \frac{n(5 + 2n + 3)}{2} = n^{2} + 4n$ , $b_{n} = \left\{ \begin{array}{l}2n - 3,n = 2k - 1\\ 4n + 6,n = 2k \end{array} \right.,k\in \mathbf{N}^{*}$
当 $n$ 为偶数时,
$$
T _ {n} = (b _ {1} + b _ {3} + \dots + b _ {n - 1}) + (b _ {2} + b _ {4} + \dots + b _ {n}) = \frac {- 1 + 2 (n - 1) - 3}{2} \cdot \frac {n}{2} + \frac {1 4 + 4 n + 6}{2} \cdot \frac {n}{2} = \frac {3}{2} n ^ {2} + \frac {7}{2} n,
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当 $n > 5$ 时, $T_{n} - S_{n} = \left(\frac{3}{2} n^{2} + \frac{7}{2} n\right) - (n^{2} + 4n) = \frac{1}{2} n(n - 1) > 0$ ,因此 $T_{n} > S_{n}$ ,
当 $n$ 为奇数时,若 $n \geq 3$ ,则
$T_{n}=(b_{1}+b_{3}+\cdots+b_{n})+(b_{2}+b_{4}+\cdots+b_{n-1})=\frac{-1+2n-3}{2}\cdot\frac{n+1}{2}+\frac{14+4(n-1)+6}{2}\cdot\frac{n-1}{2}$ $=\frac{3}{2}n^{2}+\frac{5}{2}n-5$ ,显然 $T_{1}=b_{1}=-1$ 满足上式,因此当n为奇数时, $T_{n}=\frac{3}{2}n^{2}+\frac{5}{2}n-5$ ,
当n>5时, $T_{n}-S_{n}=(\frac{3}{2}n^{2}+\frac{5}{2}n-5)-(n^{2}+4n)=\frac{1}{2}(n+2)(n-5)>0$ ,因此 $T_{n}>S_{n}$ ,
所以当n>5时, $T_{n}>S_{n}$ .