【解答】
解:(1)由
又 $\because C F \perp M F$ ,故利用勾股定理得:$C M=\frac{\sqrt{10}}{2}$
∴ 在 $R T \triangle M D C$ 中,$C M=\frac{\sqrt{10}}{2}, C D=1$ ,得 $D M=\frac{\sqrt{6}}{2}$ .
又 $\because F$ 点位于 $C P$ 的三分点,且 $P D=\sqrt{3}$
$\therefore E$ 为 $P D$ 的三分点,故 $D E=\frac{\sqrt{3}}{4}$ .
$\therefore S_{\triangle C D E}=\frac{1}{2} C D \cdot D E=\frac{1}{2} \times 1 \times \frac{\sqrt{3}}{4}=\frac{\sqrt{3}}{8}$ .
$\therefore V_{M-C D E}=\frac{1}{3} S_{\triangle C D E} D M=\frac{\sqrt{2}}{16}$ .
$S_{n}^{2}-\left(n^{2}+n-3\right) S_{n}-3\left(n^{2}+n\right)=0, n \in N^{*}$ ,令 $n=1$ ,得 $S_{1}^{2}-(-1) \mathrm{S}_{1}-6=0$ ,
即 $a_{1}^{2}+a_{1}-6=0$ .解得 $a_{1}=2$ 或 $a_{1}=-3$ ,由于数列 $\left\{a_{n}\right\}$ 为正项数列,所以 $a_{1}=2$ ;
②由 $S_{n}^{2}-\left(n^{2}+n-3\right) S_{n}-3\left(n^{2}+n\right)=0, n \in N^{*}$ ,因式分解得 $\left(S_{n}+3\right)\left(S_{n}-n^{2}-2 n\right)=C$
由数列 $\left\{a_{n}\right\}$ 为正项数列可得 $S_{n}-n^{2}-2 n=0$ ,即 $S_{n}=n^{2}+2 n$ ,当 $n \geq 2$ 时, $a_{n}=S_{n}-S_{n-1}=n^{2}+2 n-\left[(n-1)^{2}+2(n-1)\right]=2 n$ ,由 $a_{1}=2$ 可得,$\forall n \in N^{*}, a_{n}=2 n$
③由②可知 $\frac{1}{a_{n}\left(a_{n}+1\right)}=\frac{1}{2 n(2 n+1)}$
$\forall n \in N^{*} \frac{1}{a_{n}\left(a_{n}+1\right)}=\frac{1}{2 n(2 n+1)}<\frac{1}{(2 n-1)(2 n+1)}=\frac{1}{2}\left(\frac{1}{2 n-1}-\frac{1}{2 n+1}\right)$
当 $n=1$ 时,显然有 $\frac{1}{a_{1}\left(a_{1}+1\right)}=\frac{1}{6}<\frac{1}{3}$ ;
当 $n \geq 2$ 时,$\frac{1}{a_{1}\left(a_{1}+1\right)}+\frac{1}{a_{2}\left(a_{2}+1\right)}+\cdots+\frac{1}{a_{n}\left(a_{n}+1\right)}$
$$
<\frac{1}{2 \cdot(2+1)}+\frac{1}{2}\left(\frac{1}{3}-\frac{1}{5}+\frac{1}{5}-\frac{1}{7}+\cdots+\frac{1}{2 n-1}-\frac{1}{2 n+1}\right)=\frac{1}{3}-\frac{1}{2} \cdot \frac{1}{2 n+1}<\frac{1}{3}
$$
所以,对一切正整数 $n$ ,有 $\frac{1}{a_{1}\left(a_{1}+1\right)}+\frac{1}{a_{2}\left(a_{2}+1\right)}+\cdots \frac{1}{a_{n}\left(a_{n}+1\right)}<\frac{1}{3}$ .
由 $c=\sqrt{5}, e=\frac{c}{2}=\frac{\sqrt{5}}{2}$ 得:$a=3, b=2$ .